What to say to someone who broke your heart?

shilaiwo bo
4 min readDec 10, 2020

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Everyone’s life should meet so many people who have hurt themselves severely. What they bring are painful memories, and every minute of them stings your nerves. When they hurt you, there is still a trace of expectation in your heart: maybe he has to: he has his reasons for doing so, at least when we together, he is serious to me.

But I know that these are just ideas to deceive myself. When the wall built for his lies in your heart is broken by a little bit, you gradually realize that you explain to him in your heart: it’s just that you don’t want to face your own stupidity. What kind of person is he. Already when he hurt you, it was clearly in your heart, but because of a little fluke in your heart, he hurt yourself more deeply. When the bystander breaks the wall of lies in your heart, and your broken heart is exposed to the air full of malice. At this time, you seem to be more sure of your own stupidity and that he is just playing with yourself from the beginning to the end. Make sure you are a loser from the beginning to the end. You told yourself that: I am not afraid of failure, but I’m afraid of injury. I know that some wounds will gradually heal over time, but he will always leave a scar, like a brand, always remind himself.

At the beginning of our own how stupid, how unbearable. He will be the memory of my whole life, not good, but worth remembering forever. If you ask me, what do I want to say to those who hurt me I am very grateful to those who have hurt me. They let me know that not all people are pure and beautiful. I want to say to them, thank you for teaching me how miserable the world is. Don’t trust anyone easily. My sincerity may not change your sincerity. But thank you for letting me know that love myself is better than everything.

I want to say to the person who broke my heart,: I think I should hate you at the beginning, but from another aspect, I want to say “thank you, the people who have hurt me! Because you let me grow up and understand that all love has to go through hardships.

I really appreciate them, the people who have hurt me! Because he let us understand, The original two people’s love really no one who is right or wrong! Really thank you, once hurt me! Because you let me mature, understand that love a person even if hurt again will not have hate… Although you hurt me, but I still hope that I am a good person, can also bring good to others, although you hurt me, but I do not want others to be hurt. I believe that good and evil will be rewarded.

I will be my strongest guardian.

I want to say to those who have hurt me, thank you for your hurt, let me learn how to tolerate others, learn to appreciate others with love and gratitude. We can be grateful to the people who have hurt you and made you miserable, because they let you experience life, because they gave us the opportunity to exercise, they let us grow up, they inspired us to overcome failure and challenge ourselves; we should be grateful to those who have hurt you, because they made you learn tolerance; we should be grateful to those who gave you happiness. Because he brings you happiness; be grateful to all the people you love and those who love you, because they make your life colorful.

Trust others, forgive others, tolerate others, you will be happy; more understanding, more care, give up indifference, give life with new passion, you will find that every day let us have a new touch. Thank you for hurting me, so that I can not bow. Better work.

I am Robin Chris, a writer like the share interesting and love advice on my Blog and Bothlive, maybe you will like : How to make a guy fall in love again?

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love cat ,travling ,and cooking but good at relationships.